Perception

Everyone have different perception and opinion. You can't force everyone to follow your plan. You can't control everyone's mind and make sure all the things happen according to your plan. Anything might happen and change the situation, so what we can do is just accept it.

For every things that happen around us, you can look at the situation with a different perspective. Different people has different point of view just depends on how you look at the situation. It's just depends on how you wanna look at it. For example, if you get a job/duty that you don't really like it. There's 2 things u can do, either you wanna choose to keep blaming on what you get or appreciate what you had get.

If you can't change the situation, why don't you change your feeling towards that situation. Isn't that is much easier than you keep forcing people to follow what you are thinking? Sometimes when you are frustrated, you just try to make your feeling have a turn then maybe everything will change. And by just this little change, you might get to save your friendship or even your relationship with you partner.

I know some of you will sure show sulky face to your friends if you don't like him/her. I feel this is kinda childish. You shouldn't show that you don't like them. I don't means that when you see them you must be very friendly and talk to them cause this is really fake. You just need to like smile with them if you meet them at anywhere. Doesn't necessary that you must act until like you very friend with her. A little smile will do. As long as you have done your part and try to be nice to them, so even if they don't like it, that's their problem cause you already done your part and they are the one that don't accept this. So, remember this, a little smile might change a relationship.

Like what we always heard, how you want others to treat you, then you must treat them in the same way too. You can't expect everyone to treat you in your way and hate those that disobeyed you. We can't take things for granted. No sound will be produced if there is only one hand that is clapping. This applied to a relationship too. You can't expect one of the party that keep on working on that relationship and the other just enjoy it without even appreciate what the others had did. This is so unfair. And in the end, the other party will sure feel tired of working on it then the relationship will just end like that. And the worst part is, the other party that didn't committed at all will starting blame the others and started the back-stabbing. This might sound ridiculous but it do happen and it's so common in our life.

You can hardly find a partner and friends who are willing to commit 100% to the relationship. Maybe there's someone who really to committed for you but that doesn't means you will willing to commit with the person too. There's hard to find someone that you are willing to commit to them and they are willing to commit to you too. Maybe this might exists just that you haven't find it yet. By time goes on, you'll sure get to find someone like this. But remeber, don't just let one of the party that working on the realationship cause it needs the supports from both parties to maintain it.

"SMILE ALWAYS"

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