Stress

Stress, this word must be sound familiar to most of the peoples in the world. Life is always full with stress. Maybe some of you might think the other way round but in my opinion, i don't think so. Almost everyone around me will agree with my statement which is life is full with stress. Anything that happen might causes someone to feel stress about it. Here are some of the aspect that might make you feel stress.

STUDY
Our parents are always expect us to get high marks in our exam. And this will make us feel so tension cause we are scared that how if we can't achieve it and disappoint them. We'll also start forcing ourselves to score the best and be the top students in the class. Everyone was competing with each other to be the best. As this happen, the stress will start to formed in our heart and accumulate until it burst one day...

CO-CURRICULUM

All the co-curriculum might draw you crazy too. Like what the teachers always told us, co-curriculum become more and more important nowadays. We need the mark from it if we wanted to apply for the scholarship. Everyone is fight for the post just because they want the mark. Did the teachers ever think before that is that a right choice to keep emphasise to the students about the mark of co-curriculum? Isn't that should be fun for us to enjoy co-curriculum activity. But the teachers make it feel like the members attend the meeting just for the marks and for the fun of it. Did the misinterpret the purpose of activity curriculum? All the activity goes on will just increase the 'stressness' of the students as they are the one that going to plan all the activities and meetings for their club's members and they need to make sure the members attend the meeting because if not, they are the one will get scolded from the teachers.

HOMEWORK

Evey teacher assume that the homework they give is very little. And i do admit it. But when all the homework add together, it become A LOT!!! Bak kata pepatah, "Sikit-sikit, Lama-lama menjadi bukit". We need to do tans of homework per DAY. Homework is the things i hate the most. We are so stressed up to finish up all the homework given just to avoid from getting penalty points from the teachers. Homework, homework, homework.... Everyday is full with homework.

Haizzzz... Just now having a quite serious discussion with one of my friend, don't feel like blogging anymore for now....

Perception

Everyone have different perception and opinion. You can't force everyone to follow your plan. You can't control everyone's mind and make sure all the things happen according to your plan. Anything might happen and change the situation, so what we can do is just accept it.

For every things that happen around us, you can look at the situation with a different perspective. Different people has different point of view just depends on how you look at the situation. It's just depends on how you wanna look at it. For example, if you get a job/duty that you don't really like it. There's 2 things u can do, either you wanna choose to keep blaming on what you get or appreciate what you had get.

If you can't change the situation, why don't you change your feeling towards that situation. Isn't that is much easier than you keep forcing people to follow what you are thinking? Sometimes when you are frustrated, you just try to make your feeling have a turn then maybe everything will change. And by just this little change, you might get to save your friendship or even your relationship with you partner.

I know some of you will sure show sulky face to your friends if you don't like him/her. I feel this is kinda childish. You shouldn't show that you don't like them. I don't means that when you see them you must be very friendly and talk to them cause this is really fake. You just need to like smile with them if you meet them at anywhere. Doesn't necessary that you must act until like you very friend with her. A little smile will do. As long as you have done your part and try to be nice to them, so even if they don't like it, that's their problem cause you already done your part and they are the one that don't accept this. So, remember this, a little smile might change a relationship.

Like what we always heard, how you want others to treat you, then you must treat them in the same way too. You can't expect everyone to treat you in your way and hate those that disobeyed you. We can't take things for granted. No sound will be produced if there is only one hand that is clapping. This applied to a relationship too. You can't expect one of the party that keep on working on that relationship and the other just enjoy it without even appreciate what the others had did. This is so unfair. And in the end, the other party will sure feel tired of working on it then the relationship will just end like that. And the worst part is, the other party that didn't committed at all will starting blame the others and started the back-stabbing. This might sound ridiculous but it do happen and it's so common in our life.

You can hardly find a partner and friends who are willing to commit 100% to the relationship. Maybe there's someone who really to committed for you but that doesn't means you will willing to commit with the person too. There's hard to find someone that you are willing to commit to them and they are willing to commit to you too. Maybe this might exists just that you haven't find it yet. By time goes on, you'll sure get to find someone like this. But remeber, don't just let one of the party that working on the realationship cause it needs the supports from both parties to maintain it.

"SMILE ALWAYS"

:D :D :D

Little Bird

Marching + Guiding

From my opinion, i think marching is very fun. We get to interact with each other among the juniors and the seniors. Some of u might think that marching is very tiring and it's kinda wasting of time. It's actually NOT.

But maybe because of some of the reasons and causes u guys don't like marching. For example: the strictness from the senior. Somehow i know the seniors are TOO strict but that's for your own good. They might just want to train you all to be the best. But somehow maybe some of their method is wrong.

We can't always be strict to them all the time. We must do the right things at the right time. We can't just continue with the way we like without thinking of their feeling. Maybe that's wat senior like to do, without thinking for them and just do whatever they think that was right. Even like me myself, i will also scold them when they really did something wrong. But after that we'll still be good to each other. And when they did nothing wrong, i'll also treat them nicely. It's not that because we're the senior then we can scold them whenever we like. It's so WRONG.

Let's back to the marching part, for all the juniors, marching is fun!!!! XD If you don't believe, you can actually go ask some of the seniors. Some of them are freaking in love with marching but not me. I just love marching but not as crazy as them.Don't just give up because of the small obstacles that you are facing it now. All these will over after some time. I'll try to help you all to negotiate with them. You just need to do your part for now.

For the juniors(mostly to the frm 1 and form 2) that had come for the marching on today morning, i know u all must have suffer with muscle pain for now. You can actually soak your legs in the water. The water is actually the warm water(1/2 of hot water + 1/2 of tap water). Your leg will sure relief from the pain and it's very cmfortable. You can did this when you are watching tv or even when reading this post. =D

Girl guide is not just about marching too. We will be having a lots of fun activity such as hiking, celebration for thinking day, 'khidamt', 'hari bakat', CAMPING and many more. and I'm sure you wouldn't want to miss it.

And until this part i know some of u will sure don't like it but no choice i still need to mention about it which is your test work and also your log books. You can come to find us anytime if u have any questions about all the tests. I think some of u might think that it's very stress to take all the test and u might think that by using some of your time to do the log books can affect your study. But for your information, this is WRONG! Doing log books and pass all the GG tests will not actually affect your studyif you had arrange your time properly. You must have fun doing all the log books.

"ONCE A GUIDE,
ALWAYS A GUIDE"

Hope that all of you will love guiding. Guiding is fun! :D :D :D

p/s: We LOVE u, juniors! muaxxx :-*

Should I?

I know tat i shouldn't had treat him like tat but i just can't control myself whenever i saw him.

This is not the first time he had make this kind of mistake. This is the 4TH time!!!!!(and maybe more). The worst part is we had advice him before he did the same mistake AGAIN but we end up with a scolding.

I really don't like is that he is the one that make the mistake but he as if that we are the one that did that mistake. Just imagine if we are the one that did this kind of mistake, sure we will be getting scolded from him. But when he is the one tat did the mistake, he expect us to forgive him which i think is quite imposible(at least for now). I don't think we'll get to forgive him as we really cannot accept with wat he had done.

Whenever we saw him, we'll try to avoid him but he just keep come and wanna talk to us. And i will sure tune up my voice when answering him which i don't really want to but i just can't control myself. I really try very hard not to talk to him but he just as if that we had already forgive him and keep wanna talk to us.

And he even come and ask us why we treat him this way. He never though that this is his fault and keep on giving excause that he though his friend will help him. I really feel pity for his friend cause he helped him for thousand times ad but he seem like don't appreciate it at all and create more and more trobles. He never feel that this is his fault before.

What he was think now was why we don't forgive him and why we don't help him. Is not that we don't want to help him but just that we are not able to help him anymore. What else can we do? Whenever i saw him, my anger will just appear from some where and make me feel like scolding him. But i know i can't do that.

I really trying my best to treat him as usual but it seem like not happening. I just can't control myself. I really hope that i can control myself so that i won't be so suffer. What should i do? or i should say what CAN i d for now? I really dunno what can/should i do for this moment. I just hope that he don't disturb us anymore so that i can try to conince myself to live in an environmet which is without him and without all the troubles.

Some of my friends was thought tat i must be something wrong and i was trying to pretend that i'm fine. For all ur information, i'm pretty fine(REALLY!). Don't worry about me. I won't let all these stupid stuffs to affect my life and my study. Nothing is more important than my futher.

I won't take risk of my SPM which determine my futher whether i can get scholarship or not. I must study very hard to ensure i get the scolarship to further my study. And even my QG test, he always thought tat all the log books that i was doing is useless. To him:"For your information, it's NOT useless. You never prepare any money for my study, tat's why i'm trying to use my own ability to get the scholarship but you always says what i'm doing now is usless which i CANNOT accept."

Hope that he get to read this post and know what we actually feel n stop disturbing us but i know he won't cause he dunno how to online. Just hope that he can really know his own mistake and stop blaming the others.

p/s: some of u might know who is he but not all of u know tat.

updated!

Ok! I'm know i'm not suppose to be online for NOW but no choice cause i need to rush for my BAKP (Bengkel Anugerah Ketua Pesuruhjaya) log book. and one of my friends keep insist me to update my blog. I got a lot of tings to say actually. Everytime when i online, i wanted to blog but when i open my computer, it just seem like i don't have mood to blog anymore n there's a few more posts which are still save as draft. Here is some of the things tat happen recently(and maybe long times ago).

~ Firstly ~
It's about our school merentas desa(it passes long time ago actually). Our school's merentas desa is held on the 29th January 2009 which his one day before our CNY holiday. All the things went quite well actually except the incident about the numbers for the members of class 1 and class 2 are been mixing up and tat might causes the disqualification of the members but it is actually not our fault. The teacher(i'm not suppose to mention her name at here but i think u might know who is it) didn't organize all the stuff properly and blame it all on us. It really make us pissed off at that moment especially rock chan. The teacher expect us to help her clean up all the mess that she have done and accused us that we are the one that didn't heard the instruction properly. But luckily everything went well after that. And guess wat? I get no. 47. XD I know it wasn't very good but at least it's still top 50 and it was the best record that i ever get. Actually I'm suppose to get 48 and may shuen is suppose to get 47 but just because the teacher there pointed her the wrong lane, that"s wh i get to cut her.

here are the overall results:
Ledang
TAHAN!!
Titiwangsa
Jerai
Kinabalu

Here is the TAHAN,
Here we shout.
TAHAN, YEAH!
TAHAN, YEAH!
TAHAN, YEAH YEAH YEAH!!!!
Parapapapa,
I'm lovin it!


~ Secondly ~
It's about the CNY. During this CNY, i went back to my grandma's house at Sg. Petani, Kedah. i had stayed there for 5 days 4 nights. Their social life there seems a bit normal and boring. Every afternoon when i was still at Kedah, i was either go my aunt's house or stay at my grandma's house to watch TV. It was quite boring staying there but i enjoy the moment with my grandma. I started to miss her now. My grandma is now 90 over years old and she is going to celebrate her birthday in another 1 month time. My grandma is CUTE! XD I love her so much. n i love my little cousin too, even though sometimes the might be quite rude which i not really like it at that time but they was nice too. My grandma cried when we wanna go back that time, that's wh sometimes my mom ask us not to treat my grandma too good (but of course we don't treat her bad). It took us another 6 hours to came back to Klang again....