PERFECT, what is perfect?
According to oxford dictionary, perfect can be defined as
1. without any faults or defects
2. complete; total
Why am i talking about 'perfect' at here?
If you are a perfect student at school, you must also be a perfect daughter/son in your family.
What do I mean about the perfect student? A prefect student is someone who always has best attendance in school, achieves good result in his/her academic, active in his/her co-curriculum activities and more. A perfect student will sacrifice his/her time for school activities and co-curriculum activities or even his/her responsibility as a prefect.
Back to the topic, why do I say so that we must be perfect children in our homes if we are perfect students in school. That is because our parents will always expect more from us Even though we have done our best, parents may still think we are not good enough and constantly criticize us. What more can we do? We can only try our best. But the sad part is, even if we have done our best, our parents may still dislike what we have achieved. So, we have to do better than the best We need to take extra effort to do all everything. If we accidentally do something imperfectly, we will definitely get scolding as a 'reward'.
And... Parents will always compare our attitudes in school and towards our family. For example: They will always say 'Why can you do this in school but not at home?' or 'Why do you treat your friends better than your family members?' The only thing I can say is that it is not we who causes this difference. But you are the ones. I'm not trying to blame any one of you. Like what they say, 'If you expect someone to treat you better, you must treat someone better first in return' .
You always say that the way we treat or talk to you is very rude but have you ever thought before about the way you treat us? How can you always patronise us but in the end you are the one who does the mistake? Is it that only parents have got the right to make mistakes but not the children?
According to oxford dictionary, perfect can be defined as
1. without any faults or defects
2. complete; total
Why am i talking about 'perfect' at here?
If you are a perfect student at school, you must also be a perfect daughter/son in your family.
What do I mean about the perfect student? A prefect student is someone who always has best attendance in school, achieves good result in his/her academic, active in his/her co-curriculum activities and more. A perfect student will sacrifice his/her time for school activities and co-curriculum activities or even his/her responsibility as a prefect.
Back to the topic, why do I say so that we must be perfect children in our homes if we are perfect students in school. That is because our parents will always expect more from us Even though we have done our best, parents may still think we are not good enough and constantly criticize us. What more can we do? We can only try our best. But the sad part is, even if we have done our best, our parents may still dislike what we have achieved. So, we have to do better than the best We need to take extra effort to do all everything. If we accidentally do something imperfectly, we will definitely get scolding as a 'reward'.
And... Parents will always compare our attitudes in school and towards our family. For example: They will always say 'Why can you do this in school but not at home?' or 'Why do you treat your friends better than your family members?' The only thing I can say is that it is not we who causes this difference. But you are the ones. I'm not trying to blame any one of you. Like what they say, 'If you expect someone to treat you better, you must treat someone better first in return' .
You always say that the way we treat or talk to you is very rude but have you ever thought before about the way you treat us? How can you always patronise us but in the end you are the one who does the mistake? Is it that only parents have got the right to make mistakes but not the children?
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